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To Sam 

31/12/09 6:10pm 

I'm being bullied at home 

hi i wanted to ask you something. i am 11 and have already been into care but now i am back home and its worse. my mum bullies me more. before i got abused all my life getting smacked. but now she always swears at me calls me names and i dont know what to do 

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Sam 

7/01/10 1:25pm 

Hi thanks for your letter

Sounds as though you have had a difficult and upsetting young life. Although the social sevices said you could go and live back at home with mum from what you are telling me it doesn't seem as though this was a good thing to happen?

Do you still have contact with the social worker who said that you could go home to mum? If you do you must try and be brave and talk to him/her really quickly.

If not then you must talk to an adult that you like someone maybe in your family, like an auntie,nan,grandad or even your teacher.

You must tell someone what is happening at home for you as soon as you can. You will have to feel very brave to do this so find a friend maybe at school that could help you.

If you don't think you can do this come and talk to ChildLine either phone 0800 1111 or have a 1-2-1 online chat. The ChildLine counsellor will help you with this.

Take care

Sam  

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