Hi there,
Thanks for you message to me. I can hear that you are wondering about how ChildLine could help you. You say that you have been in contact with ChildLine before and you’re not sure if it was the right thing to do. I’m wondering what’s making you question whether you did the right thing but one way to look at it would be that even if it made a small difference to your situation it was worth it. Sometimes just having someone to listen can make a difference to how you feel.
You asked about how ChildLine could help you. I can hear that you already know that one of the ways they can do this is by giving advice. Firstly, ChildLine would listen to you and try to find out what life is like for you, because only then can they really know what type of advice might help. However, ChildLine would never tell you what to do and make you take their advice. You can be really honest with ChildLine and tell them if you don’t want to do something or you think it’s a bad idea. They will never get angry or force you to do anything; instead they can talk through what ideas you have had (if you have had any). ChildLine also knows that sometimes young people don’t want to do anything and don’t want advice but just want someone to talk to and listen to them and that is okay. They realise that just talking to someone about your problems can make you feel less alone and more able to cope with what’s going on in your life.
Counsellors at ChildLine are understanding and aren’t easily shocked by what young people say. When you talk to ChildLine it is your safe space to say whatever you want to confidentially. You can be angry or sad when talking to ChildLine and they will accept you for who you are and how you feeling. You might find it useful to explore the website for more information. You could also call ChildLine on 0800 1111 and ask a counsellor any questions you have. They will be happy to answer them and help you in the best way for you. I hope this has helped.
Take care,
Sam