You say you might need to tell someone if you’re very worried about me or someone else. What does this mean?
You can talk to ChildLine about anything that is important to you, no matter how big or small it might seem. There are some things that we think are too big to keep between you and ChildLine, and we will talk to you about whether other people need to know what’s happening.
We may want to tell someone else what is happening if:
- We think your life or someone else’s life is in danger
- You've told us that someone is hurting you, who might be hurting other people too - like a teacher who works with other children
- You’ve told us that you have been hurting another person which makes us worried about their safety.
Is ChildLine’s confidentiality different from school?
Yes, ChildLine’s confidentiality is different from school. There are a lot of things that your teacher couldn’t keep confidential that ChildLine can. That means you can feel safe to talk about anything you need to. Some children and young people tell us that their teacher suggested that they call ChildLine because of this.
Do I have to tell you my name?
You can tell us as much or as little as you want to. Sometimes a ChildLine counsellor will ask you if you want to give a first name, but it’s up to you if you want to do this. You can always make up a name if you don’t want to give us your real name. We would ask you to use the same name if you do get in touch with us again so that we know it’s you.
When you go online, you will be asked to choose a username and a nickname, and it’s up to you what you decide to call yourself. It’s important that you don’t let anyone else know about what you’ve chosen to call yourself.
If you want us to get in touch with someone to let them know about what is happening to you, we will need to know your full name and some other information about you.
What happens if I do tell you my name?
Just because we do know your name doesn’t mean that we would tell someone else about what is happening for you, even if we know your surname. You can feel safe to tell us as much as you want. If you think you might like to phone us back, sometimes it can be helpful if you tell us your first name (or the name you want us to call you) so that it is easier for us to find notes about what you’ve said in your calls.
What happens if I want ChildLine to tell someone about what's happening to me?
If you want someone else to know about what was happening to you, you can talk to your ChildLine counsellor about what you would like to happen next, and who else you want to know about your situation. We would need to know some more information about you, like your full name and address, your date of birth and the name of your school. If you need time to think about whether or not you want us to tell someone else, just let us know. You can always get in touch with ChildLine again later.
Do you know my phone number/e-mail address?
No, we don’t know this information unless you choose to tell us it. If you want us to talk to someone else about what is happening, like the police or social services, we will probably ask you to give us your phone number so that they can contact you.
There may be times when we need to tell someone about what is happening. If this is the case, there is a way that we can request your phone number or IP address (a number unique to your computer) which means that we can get help to you. We have strict guidelines about when we can do this and we would always try and talk to you first, before we pass this information on to an outside agency.
Will my call to ChildLine be on the phone bill, and can I call free on my mobile?
Because ChildLine is an 0800 number, calls are free and don't show up on a BT or cable phone bill. Calls to ChildLine on 0800 1111 are currently free from all the existing networks - 3, BT Mobile, Fresh, O2, Orange, T Mobile, Virgin, Vodafone. We have been told that calls will not appear on any of these bills.
The telephone number will still appear in your list of dialled calls on your mobile as a 0800 11 11. If you don't want people to see the number in your list of dialled calls, you should delete this from your called number list.
Can anyone see that I’ve used my home computer to get in touch with ChildLine?
No one will be able to read any messages you’ve sent to ChildLine or received from a ChildLine counsellor as long as you keep your password private. It is possible for someone to see the history of the sites you have visited on your computer, but not if you have deleted your history. If you want to delete this history see cover your tracks for advice about how to do this.
Who at ChildLine knows what I’ve talked about?
Your contact with ChildLine is confidential between you and ChildLine. We keep notes about what you have told us that no one outside ChildLine will see. The notes are so that we can look back at them together if you contact us again. There are lots of different ChildLine bases in the country, and you may speak to a counsellor in any one of these places. We make sure that other ChildLine bases can see your notes if they need to, so you don’t need to go through everything again. ChildLine supervisors may listen into your phone call, or supervise your 1-2-1 chat to make sure that we can help you the best we can.
Do you record phone calls to ChildLine?
When you phone ChildLine, we don’t audio record what you say. We do keep notes about your call though which means that you don’t have to go through everything again if you decide to phone back. These notes stay safe at ChildLine.
I’ve got another question about confidentiality
You can get in touch with ChildLine by phoning 0800 1111. You can ask ChildLine anything you want to about confidentiality to help you to feel safe and comfortable talking to us about what is happening for you.