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Exam stress

Sometimes exams can leave you feeling overwhelmed and unable to cope. The good news is the stress can be managed and help is available.

If you're stressed about exams you can talk to us

Image of a school girl worried about her examsThe pressure to revise and do well in exams, whether it's from your parents or your teachers can be very stressful.

You might be worried you are going to fail or that you won't get the grades you need for the job or course you want.

If you are stressed about anything to do with exams, you can always talk to ChildLine – we are here for you no matter how big or small your worry.

You can speak to a counsellor by calling free on 0800 1111 or through 1-2-1 chat online, or email. Or get support from other young people on the message boards.

Problems at home or school can make it hard to concentrate

If your family are arguing or going through a tough time themselves, it can make finding time to revise and concentrate even more difficult. Things affecting your concentration could include:

- Family arguing
- Problems with your girlfriend / boyfriend
- Feeling like you want to hurt yourself
- Bullying
- Depression and feeling sad
- Having to look after people in your family

If you feel any of these problems are affecting your work, it is important to tell someone how you feel. This could be a teacher or a trusted friend. In some serious circumstances, your school might be able to make exceptions which they can discuss with you.

The pressure of exams can make you anxious

Anxiety can sometimes make you feel tired, upset, worried, shaky, light-headed, frustrated or feeling like you might ‘go crazy’. It can also present itself as a panic attack, or make you feel like you might be sick.

Anxiety or stress can be a result of something specific (like writing exams) or you could be feeling stressed for no specific reason, which is normal and okay too.

 

Talking about stress can help you to cope

It can seem scary at first to talk about stress or anxiety, as you might feel like nobody else is feeling this way or would understand. This often makes the stress worse.

If you think you might be experiencing anxiety or stress, talking about it with someone you trust can be the next step. Talking about how you are feeling can reduce the pressure and help you to feel more in control.

 

  • What is exam stress?

    Exam stress starts when you feel you can't cope with revision, sitting exams or pressure from your school or family. If you feel stressed about taking exams you aren’t alone in feeling like this – lots of other young people experience anxiety at exam time.

    If you feel overwhelmed by exam stress you can talk to ChildLine to get help and support to find a way to cope with the anxiety and worry.

  • I'm scared I'm going to fail my exams.

    "I have my GCSE's coming up, and I am getting so stressed and worried that I'm going to do awful in them. "I can't cope with A levels anymore, I get so worked up that I just cry" When we feel anxious, we often give ourselves negative messages such as, ‘I can’t do this’, ‘I’m useless’ and ‘I’m going to fail’. It can be difficult but try and replace these with encouraging thoughts such as: ‘this is just anxiety, it can’t harm me’ and, ‘relax, concentrate; it is going to be ok’. By picturing how you would like things to go, can help you feel more positive. For example, try to imagine yourself turning up to an exam feeling confident and relaxed. You turn over your paper, write down what you do know and come away knowing you tried your best on the day.

    Whenever you start to panic or doubt your ability, why not write your thoughts down on the Wall of Expression. Then piece by piece knock the wall down and watch your anxious thoughts crumble away.  

  • If I don't get the grades I need, it'll ruin everything.

    "I'm about to start my very important GCSE's. I'm worried that
    I won't revise for them and ruin my future : ( "

    "My heads all over the place, I don't know what I'm gonna do
    if I don't get in."

    It can sometimes feel like the whole of your future depends on what grades you get. First of all, try not to panic. You have a while until exam results come out. Even if you don’t get the results you need or expect, you still have options and can get help with any decisions you have to make.

    Remember, exams are important – but they are not the only key to a successful future. Read more about your future and making decisions.

  • Everyone expects me to do really well, it's stressing me out.


    "I am really nervous. Everyone expects me to do really well but being put under pressure I feel like I am going to fail."



    There can be a lot of pressure on young people to do well in exams which can cause a lot of stress and anxiety.
    You might have been predicted certain grades or put into a higher set, and feel if you don’t get the grade you’ll let your teachers or parents down.

    Talking to your parents or teachers about how you feel could really help. They might not be aware of how their attitude toward your exams is putting pressure on you. Take a look at them message boards and get advice from other young people who may be in the same situation.

  • My friends never revise, yet they always do better than me.


    "You're judged if u do awful, you're put into sets and I did awful last year, I need to up my game"

    "Everyone is better than me, I feel so stupid"

    During exam time, it’s easy to start comparing your own revision or performance with that of your friends. Some people in your class might be bragging about how easy they are finding it all whilst you might be struggling.

    Not understanding something at first does not mean you are thick or stupid. Everyone learns in different ways and you have to find a way that suits you. Read more advice about revision tips. Try and focus on your own work and not put yourself down.  

    Some people are more academic than others, but this doesn’t mean your future won’t be successful. Nobody is good at everything. Where some people might fail, you could be the one to shine through and succeed.

  • I'm worried about sitting the exam.


    There is nothing wrong with being worried about the actual exam, it’s very normal. The more prepared we are, the more confident we feel in being able to cope.


    There are lots of things you can do to get ready for your exams, whether you are taking GCSEs, A Levels, Scottish Highers or another kind of exam, it's important to find what works for you. Read more about revision tips
    and how to keep calm before an exam.  

    Your teacher is also there to support you. Don’t be ashamed to ask for help and talk to them about how you feel. Together you might be able to find a solution which will help you feel better.

Call ChildLine

You can call ChildLine at any time on 0800 1111 to speak to a counsellor. Calls are free and confidential.

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