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Problems sleeping

Lots of young people struggle to fall asleep at night. Thinking about school, people, events or even something you’ve seen on TV can leave you feeling restless. Even your diet or daily routine can have an effect on your sleep patterns. The good news however, is that there are things you can try to help you sleep better.

Things you can try to help you fall asleep

DO

  • Make sure that your bed and bedroom are comfortable - not too hot, not too cold, not too noisy or bright.

  • Get some exercise. Don't overdo it, but try some regular swimming or walking. The best time to exercise is in the daytime - particularly late afternoon or early evening. Later than this can disturb your sleep. Exercise burns off excess energy and releases endorphins – a natural chemical which will help you de-stress, feel less anxious and more relaxed.

  • Image of a girl falling asleep at the breakfast tableTake some time to relax properly before going to bed. Some young people find reading helpful.

  • If you can't sleep, get up and do something relaxing. Read or listen to quiet music. This can also be useful to do if you are ‘winding down’ before you go to bed.

  • You might be kept awake by friends ringing or texting you – it might be best to ask them to stop or to switch your phone to silent or even turn it off.

  • If something is troubling you and there is nothing you can do about it right away, try writing it down before going to bed and then tell yourself to deal with it tomorrow.

  • Why not put all of your worries in an email to a ChildLine counselor? Once it’s sent, you can sit back knowing that a counselor is there to support you and will get back to you with help and advice.

  • Write down everything that’s on your mind in the balloon game – no matter how big or small you think they are.

  • Close your eyes and imagine you’re in your favorite place or where you want to be one day. Imagine yourself happy and relaxed with everything working out. Slowly breathe in and out, relaxing your muscles until you feel a sense of calm.

DON’T

  • Don't go without sleep for a long time. Go to bed when you feel tired and stick to a routine of getting up at the same time every day, whether you still feel tired or not.

  • Image of a teenage boy sleepingCaffeine hangs around in your body for many hours after your last drink of tea, coffee or cola. Stop drinking caffeinated drinks by mid-afternoon.
    If you want a hot drink in the evening, try something milky or herbal (but check there's no caffeine in it).

  • Cut down on sugar. Sugars like chocolate and fizzy drinks are stimulants which will prevent your body from sleeping. Nicotine found in cigarette smoke also has the same effect.

  • Steer clear of alcohol. Alcohol at night will force your body into a deep sleep too soon, disturbing your sleep pattern making you wake up after a few hours.

  • Don't eat or drink a lot late at night.
    Try to have your supper early in the evening rather than late so that your body has time to digest.

  • If you've had a bad night, don't sleep in the next day - it will make it harder to get off to sleep the following night.

  • Don’t play computer games or overuse your PC. This may relieve boredom but can make it harder to get to sleep as your mind is stimulated.

  • Try to avoid watching too much TV in bed.

  • How much sleep do I need?

    Everybody needs sleep. It is a crucial time when our mind can fully repair itself, digest information and get ready for the next day. It is recommended that young people aim for 8-9 hours' sleep a night to feel the benefits.

  • Benefits of a good night’s sleep...

    Here are a few things you can look forward to when your sleep pattern is back on track: 

    • Improved alertness, concentration and exam performance. A lack of sleep can cause you to struggle with memory and problem solving tasks.
    • Clearer skin. Lack of sleep can contribute to acne and other skin problems, making you more prone to spots.
    • Weight loss and better health. Losing sleep can increase appetite, causing you to eat unhealthy foods as your body begins to crave sugar and fatty foods to compensate for low energy, leading to weight gain.
    • Better mood. Bad sleeping patterns can make you feel low, irritable and aggressive, where you could find yourself yelling at family or friends. Getting a good night’s sleep can help reduce mood swings, helping you feel more positive about yourself and the people around you.
    • Your cells produce more protein when you are sleeping which prepare damage caused by everyday stress and pollution. Therefore, sleep helps you feel healthier on the inside as well look better on the outside.

  • Sleep tips from young people on the message boards...

    Lots of you on the message boards have posted in your tips for getting a good night’s sleep. Take a look at the message board for inspiration from other young people

  • Apps you can download to help you sleep...

    There are lots of free apps out there which can help you unwind and feel more relaxed, ready for sleep. Here are a couple of examples which can be used on an iPhone, iPod touch and iPad: 

    Custom Sounds of Nature Lite
    CSON Lite provides two very realistic sounds of nature: Calm Ocean and Mountain Stream. Within Calm Ocean, there is a selection of sounds and the option to change their volume and sound:Ocean, Seagulls, Wind Chimes and Foghorn. Mountain Stream has a several sounds to choose from as well: Stream, Bull Frogs, Birds and Day Crickets.

    eSleep Lite
    eSleep Lite is slightly different from your regular sound machine in the sense that it allows you to select one background “music” track and up to three “noise” tracks. It also will let you record your own soothing sound to be played as a “noise” track.

  • I struggle with getting up in the mornings?

    A side effect of poor sleeping habits, such as going to bed later, is that we feel tired and unable to get out of bed in the mornings, especially during the winter months when there are less daylight hours.

    - Place your clock or mobile phone on the other side of the room so you have to physically get out of bed to turn your alarm off.

    - Have something to look forward to. Waking up early in the morning can be hard work. Try and find something that motivates you to wake up early such as a tasty breakfast, watching an episode of your favourite programme while you get ready or playing on your console.

    Waking up early gives you some breathing space to think about what you want to achieve that day before the rest of the world wakes up. Once you start getting into a routine, you’ll start to find that waking up each morning becomes slightly easier.

  • Track your mood

    As you change your sleeping routine; why not track your mood each day using the mood tracker in your locker? This will help you see whether getting enough sleep helps you feel better. If you still feel low, it may be worth increasing your exercise or eating a balanced diet. Find out more about staying healthy

    Remember, you can also chat to a counsellor about any worries you might have on 0800 1111, through online chat or by sending an email.

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