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Your future

You never know how one decision or event can affect your life. This is one of the reasons why we feel so nervous about making decisions. What if we make the wrong choice or our plans don’t work out?

It is normal to worry about your future – it can mean change and uncertainty. But it also allows for exciting events, places and people to enter your life and to make a fresh start.

Choices and making decisions

I get freaked out about my futureBeing asked, ‘What do you want to do with your life?’ whether it’s from your parents, teachers or friends can be overwhelming at times. News about higher tuition fees and the job market also doesn’t help.

The summer holidays are a great time to take a step back and think about what you want from life and how you might get there.
Read more about making decisions

Worried about exam results?

Getting your exam results can be a worrying time. It can seem like the whole of your future depends on what you get. If you haven’t done well in your exams, don’t let it get to you – see it as a temporary setback.

A lot of people from all sorts of backgrounds have gone on to do amazing things and have reaped the rewards. No matter what happens or what you decide to do in life, if you’re determined enough, you can be successful.
Didn’t get the exam results you needed? Find out what you can do.

My plans haven’t worked out

If something hasn’t turned out the way you hoped, it can really knock your confidence and leave you feeling frustrated, upset and even angry.

The best thing to do is take step back and try and find another way to get to where you want to be.

It might not feel like it now, but you never know whether it has changed your circumstances, just enough, to let something else work out very well.

If you’re unsure about what to do next, why not Ask Sam for an objective opinion

I want to be more confident

We all have an image of the person we want to be, whether it is somebody who is happier, sociable or more confident.

Believing in yourself can take time but it is achievable. As you build up your self-esteem, you’re more likely to have the confidence to go for what you deserve rather than settling for something or someone that makes you unhappy. Find out ways you can boost your confidence and self-esteem

  • Looking forward to change

    In September, many of you will be starting a new school year, going off to college/sixth form or university. You might even start a new job and be earning money, learn a skill or go travelling.

    Stepping out of your comfort zone and meeting new friends can be a scary experience. It is normal to feel nervous and anxious about change. If you’re feeling nervous or unsure, try looking at the change in your life as a new and exciting chapter and a fresh start. Go with an open mind and, when things get tough, remind yourself that everything will be ok.
    Take a look at the message boards and see what other young people say

  • I can’t imagine a happy future for myself

    Sometimes when we’re at our lowest, we find it difficult to imagine that any good things will come our way. If you’re depressed or you self-harm, you might be worried about how you’ll cope with what life throws at you. Even talking about it could be tough.

    You’ll be surprised at how strong you can be. With the right support, things can and will get better. Then, when you reach that moment in your life when you’re truly happy, you can look back and see how far you’ve come. Because you would have come so far, it will be all the more meaningful and make you a stronger person.

  • We can help

    If worries about your future are affecting you so badly that it’s all you can think about, don’t bottle it up – find someone to talk to. Try talking to your parents, teachers or your friends. If you feel like you can’t talk to them or would like an objective point of view, you can talk to our counsellors at any time online or by phoning 0800 1111.

    Thousands of teenagers get in touch with us every week about all sorts of issues. Don’t ever feel like you’re wasting our time or that your problem isn’t big enough. We see you as a person, not just a problem and what matters to you, matters to us.
    Find out what contacting ChildLine is like and how we can help

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